If anyone is curious how the LDS Church's "love the sinner, hate the sin" approach to homosexuality plays out on the ground among the lay members of the church, you need only look to the CBS Survivor blog for your answer. This season's Survivor features a "gay Mormon" named Todd. Apparently, many true believing Mormons think the term "gay Mormon" is not only oxymoronic but downright offensive. Read the comments left at the Survivor blog here to see ignorance and hate--based on religious dogma--in all their glory.
Oh, and for the ultimate result of the LDS Church's incessant preaching about the "evils" of homosexuality, see this thread at the New Order Mormon site. How many people have to die before the Brethren dial back the hateful rhetoric?